How to avoid Dating Site #scams

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With St. Valentines day just around the corner a few words and warnings about Dating scams.

Dating frauds are becoming more frequent. That’s why it is better to know from the beginning how to safeguard yourself from scams when using Web personals, dating agencies and dating sites. Many people try on-line dating to find a better half, but many of these people don’t understand that internet dating has hazards, like dating scams. These cons could also be used to glean personal data for Identity Theft and other crimes.

It is a scam, for instance, when a single foreign man gets acquainted over the Internet with a stunning woman, that will try to get as much money out of the innocent stranger as feasible. Online dating scammers are cold-hearted. They are happy to profit from people’s sensibilities for their own advantage. If you get too heavily engaged, a dating scam it cannot only break your heart, but your financial resources too. So, don’t be too up-front with the anyone you are chatting with, try to remember that most Online personals and dating sites allow everyone to join free so you never ever know who is behind that pretty picture.

The online scams come in lots of shapes and sizes, but the nastiest form is the romance scam. When those scammers approach you on a dating web site. They play with their victim’s experiences, send them lovely emails, call them on the phone, and when they have built a degree of confidence, here deliver a nasty sting. They may have many faces, employing a variety of strategies using various personas, they typically changes names, may detail themselves as a different gender, nationality, age or place.

The significant tool of the romance scammer is photographs. If the pictures are more tempting, the odds that this may be a scam are more substantial. The scammer may get the photographs from a modeling website and images of innocent individuals and commence using them.

Precisely how do they operate? First, they approach the victim (or the victim is enticed to make contact) by making using of some appealing pictures which are generally posted from the Net. Second, they are “grooming” the victim. The scammer will establish some marvelous communication with each victim, referring to unquestionable trust and honesty. The messages become long, elaborate and super romantic. They may likely address their victims as “my love”, “my prince” and so on. Usually they will pretend to love the victim. They will talk about their dreams of the very first meeting. Once sufficient responses by the victim indicate an interest, the next step is to ask for money. To achieve this, the scammer will share a sad and dire scenario that they are currently experiencing. They will also inquire about the victims guidance to create some buy-in and get the victim more engaged. When they pose the problem it may be as simple as “they would really like to meet you but do not have enough money” or “they have been robbed and beaten and require urgent surgery or treatment for a serious illness”. The minute the victim is captured in the trap, they will not stop. The aim of the scam is to milk the victim of as much money as possible, using a constant stream of many different deceptions as justifications. The concluding part of the scam is the disappearing act. Once the scammer thinks that the victim may be on to them or the victim isn’t going to do as they ask, they simply disappear completely.

To avoid eventually becoming a victim understand these simple tips:

  • when viewing a dating profile or personals advert look out for things like a sleazy user name; a normal and truthful woman will not use a sleazy user name.
  • read what the profile says, because scammers want to appeal to as many victims as possible they will say something indefinite that will appeal to anyone.
  • look at the pictures, if the pictures are too irresistible, gorgeous and professional in combination with a vague profile it means that the profile may be a scam. As a general rule, beautiful people are very choosy so they include many prerequisites in their profiles.

How to protect yourself:

  • use your common sense and ask yourself “could this be a scam”?
  • never send money or give credit card details.
  • do not open dubious or unsolicited emails, you should just delete them.
  • never reply to a spam email.
  • do not agree to transfer money for someone else because money laundering is a criminal offense.

Statistically and historically, males are more vulnerable and open to dating scams. There have been calculable frauds reported to police. Reports include men sending money to their non-existing female admirers. So, never hand over money or personal details such as home address or bank account to someone who you never actually met.

Also never forget that on-line dating has many benefits and these dating scams shouldn’t prevent you to try online dating especially now that you know how to handle the situation and spot prospective dating scams.

6 Responses to “How to avoid Dating Site #scams”

  1. hhigashi1968 Says:

    Reblogged this on hhigashi and commented:
    Good stories.

  2. hhigashi1968 Says:

    I see this on other friends post. What makes men want to be a victims?? I cant work out it.

  3. niheath Says:

    Reblogged this on niheath and commented:
    Very informative reading about dating #scams. St. Valentines day

  4. niheath Says:

    Very interesting and informative reading, thank you.

  5. shellyg1981 Says:

    Reblogged this on shellygsite and commented:
    Here is some great advice for St. Valentines Day to avoid the “bloodshed”

  6. shellyg1981 Says:

    This is some great advice. I recommend that all people looking for love overseas read this article.

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